From Negative To Positive with a List
Unfortunately, I have been a super negative person lately. But I want to be positive!UGH! Being this way is not fun! It seems like most people go through waves of being happy or unhappy, but with this being said, I have been too negative for far to long!
Why am I being negative?
This is a question that has passed through my mind more times than I can count. So I decided to make a list of the reasons why I feel this way.
My living situation is not what I want.
Living in a house that I feel is not my own has bee trying. Keeping my kids reined in so they don’t ruin things that aren’t my own is difficult but necessary.
I feel trapped
This emotion has been confusing for me, I can’t say why I feel this way…I just do.
I feel like I deserve more
I feel like with the amount of kids I have, and the hard work I do everyday, I should have more. But can’t figure our how to accomplish this for myself.
I feel like all my dreams are too hard to achieve
I have so many things I want to accomplish but am having a hard time grasping on how I can achieve them.
I am tired of potty training
Yes, this is something I struggle with. I am on month seven of potty training.
I don’t have money flow
I don’t like wondering where the money will come from or how I may be a mooch. I want the income from my hard work.
Ugh, Now what?
Now that I Have written some reasons I feel like I am being negative I read back through them and realized they have one thing in common.
They are selfish! Yes I am not looking at this and thinking oh my goodness! I am so selfish! No wonder I feel so negative. I am not looking to help others first! Because of this I wanted to write the list again only with a positive happy look on things. So here goes.
My living situation will be what I make it
I may not have my own home, but at least I have a home. A roof over my kids heads and a family who loves me in these walls. And I need to make an effort to let others know I love to be around them, because I do.
I feel the need to have adventure
I want to have more adventure and fun in my day to day life.
I feel like I need to help others more
I am embarrassed I even wrote this one down. I think the only way to fix this is to help others more so I am not feeling greedy.
I can achieve my dreams
Taking the first step is the hardest. I need to take a step.
I have beautiful children to teach.
Potty training isn’t fun. But I am lucky to have such beautiful little ones in my life. They alone make my life an adventure!
I will find a means to have money flow
I will have a positive look on how to create money flow
I can be a happy positive person
Going back through has helped me understand that I need to look more at others and what makes them happy. If I look at how to make them happy I will too be happy. I know this because I have done it before. It’s unfortunate that I may be in a rut now but I can get out of this place just like I have in the past. Yes,I can be a happy positive person! And I will be.
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